Cultural differences
Mohamed Abdulhamid Nasrallah
From: Qatar
“I am shocked when I see
indecent acts of intimacy taking place in Doha public places like malls and
restaurants. Expatriates are welcome, but they should know that we are a
conservative society and we do not tolerate any breach of our traditional and
religious values. For that reason, they should show more respect to our
traditions.
I have been offended several times after going outdoors with my
family and seeing a couple exchanging a kiss or a cuddle, hanging around in a
mall, or just sitting in intimate positions in restaurants.
What offends me
more is that my children also see such acts. I do not know what impact such
scenes would have on them.”
Name: Leo Yao
From: China
“It really offends me seeing people use their
bare hands to eat food. Growing up I was trained, even scolded sometimes, to
ensure that I didn't touch food with bare hands. I always try to use chopsticks
to consume food back home and if it's a foreign cuisine or let's say a
hamburger, I will make sure to finish it using the wrapper around it.
This
has resulted in a very strong habit of washing hands before every meal. I wash
my hands way too often, at times obsessively. It offends me how people will
quickly finish a fast food meal, rub their hands on the jeans and resume other
businesses.
In some cultures people even eat directly from the plate using
hands and it is perfectly acceptable to them.”
Name: Naghma Shaikh
From: India
“In India, a woman wearing black at a
wedding is regarded as unpleasant and it is taken in bad taste. Weddings are a
time of celebration and joy and Indian weddings are usually very colourful with
a vast palette of colours for women to choose from. Black is considered to be a
colour of mourning and is associated with funerals, which marks the end of a
person's life so wearing it to a wedding is considered inappropriate.
People
who wear black for weddings are perceived as being unhappy and discontented
about the occasion.”
From Gulf Times
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the article looks to create malice between peoples of different cultures. It also looks to be writeen by somebody who does not understand any of the cultures involved
Regarding the levels of intimacy seen in the malls.....I for example have
never witnessed any explicit intimacy other than guys kissing their noses (Emirati style) and
holding hands! (This would be considered gay in western coutnries.) If he had talked about dressing then it would have been
something else.
Second, Asians eat with their hands too, not only with chopsticks
finally, wearing black at Indian weddings is "the latest fashion", mostly happening in the big cities and not much in villages.
What is this reporter's intention of reporting such stuff ??
Naghma Shaikh must not on behalf of all Indians. I have been at weddings
in Mumbai, Bangalore, Hyderabad..
Black is elegant, bold, gorgeous. Mourning colour? Never heard of that -only Catholics think it is color of mourning
again for weddings all men wear black suits dont they?
It depends on typical class mentality
Understanding the viewpoint of Fezzi is the adhering difference and "In Rome do as Romans Do"...
First of the country who depends on tourism, should have set of values which will decide the Govt. stance about its religious/cultural & socetal norms.
Therefore, one a blue moon unusual things do happen. Publically indecent acts of intimacy are no where appreciated.
What will be code of conduct for public beach & other public places? Such details should be provided alongwith tourist guide material/visa application forms/websites.
A question is already being discussed the Emirati Identity/Ideology. After having a clear picture of ideology for Emiratis, it will help to form a homogeneous culture around the country.
We have to define well what public indecency means... For the Qatari guy in the article it means kisisng and cuddling and he says "
What offends me
more is that my children also see such acts. I do not know what impact such
scenes would have on them.” What acts? Kissing and showing affection and love?? I think that's great! What can his children think - only nice things, that two people respect and love each other! What's bad about this?
Of course, I remember the case of some couple who had sex on a beach in Dubai, and were rightly arrested. Of course, THAT IS INDECENT not only in Dubai, but in London and Paris too. But kissing and cuddling indecent?? Come on!
When wevisit or live in a different culture, we have to respect the culture of thelocals and THEIR norms... Aren't we are guests in their home?
It's simple common sense
Jon Thornberry , I have seen many public displays of affection through out the region. We need to be tolerant and open minded